You’ve probably said it. To motivate a perceptive person, you not only have to offer an incentive, but also demonstrate that they will absolutely get the reward if they do what you ask. To succeed, you must commit 100% to helping others do as you suggest. In the midst of all my darkness, babyYou came along to guide me.You took pity on a lonely manWhen you said you'd stand beside me.I'll never forget youOr what you've done.I'll never turn my back on you for anyone. "Will you still love me tomorrow?" Bruce Kasanoff is a social media ghostwriter for entrepreneurs, and an expert on being genuine. Skip or rush a step, and you are likely to fail. Before you waste time trying to get someone to do something, make certain they have the potential to do what you want. You are currently using the BETA version of our article comments feature. Emma Freire is a writer living in Sao Paulo, Brazil. So you offered to help. by Rachel Louis Snyder in, performance with Celine Dion, Gloria Estefan & Shania Twain, Boston Strong performance with James Taylor (30 May 2013), "Will you still love me tomorrow?" All songs written by Carole King, except as noted. Now and forever, you are a part of meAnd the memory cuts like a knife.Didn't we find the ecstasy, didn't we share the daylightWhen you walked into my life? For example, a good way to help someone who is moving is to offer to bring them a meal. For most of the last six months, I’ve been in the position of needing help. Before I explain a bit more, here is Dr. Dwyer's  system as he taught it to us: 1. In our final week in our last house, our pans were packed up so my husband took our kids to the Burger King drive-through nearly every day. I've got so much love to give you.Baby, I've got so much love to give you.Girl, there's more than enough to last a whole life through,And it's all for you. To reduce another person's perceptions, you first have to understand how they are viewing the risks associated with what you are asking. By reducing the perception – or better yet, the reality – of these costs, you make it easier for others to do what you want. My conclusion is that it’s usually pointless and sometimes even counterproductive. Get thought-provoking content delivered to your email inbox every weekday. It can lift your mood, make you more socially outgoing, and generally improve your outlook on the world. And I hope you’ll join me. So the next time you meet a person who needs help, I recommend that you think of a specific thing you could do for them.